I am 6'1 I've been slowly bulking for awhile my maintenance calories are around 3500 I usually hit 300-400 over that. My goal is to get 220. My end goal is 240-260. I wanted to know if you guys thought I should up my calories to say around 5000 and gain that way? All of my friends that I have talked to have told me that I could and should just eat a lot and then get to the weight I want to and then cut down. Now I have no problem with bulking and getting fat but I don't want ruin my frame and blow out my waist. Since I have started gaining weight my waist size has stayed the same. I gained 30ibs in a short period of time and I fully expected my waist to grow but it didn't it's currently at 26-28in. I'm only concerned with my waist/frame because once I do get up to 240-260 I want to compete. I know everyone is different but based on what I have told you guys do you think I should up my calories to say around 5000 and gain that way?