I am the father of three beautiful ladies. Because of these ladies I have been blessed with 4 grandsons and 2 granddaughters. They are the reason for my existence and I measure my success as a man by the level of confidence they express in their lives. My entire goal as a father was to build confidence and independence in my daughters..
We live in a society that does not honor women and expects women to be, act, or look a certain way. I am here to tell you that is ALL bullshit!
Listen and listen good.... you are special, you are beautiful and you are unique. Be yourself, be different and do not allow yourself to be compared to anyone or anything.
To become the best you that you can be I advise you to stop comparing yourself to others. Comparisons are unfair. You are so unique attempting to compare yourself to someone else is robbing yourself of who you truly are. You have nothing to gain from comparing yourself to others but you do have everything to lose. By comparing yourself to others you are robbing yourself of joy and building within yourself self resentment.
Be proud of who you are gals..... express appreciation for who you are. Doing so will provide you with the freedom to become independent and provide you with the confidence that you may have never experienced before.