Notch Count Insecurities

[PedritoHID]

Hello brows,

I am here one again asking for your support.

Do you have sexual insecurities with your notch count? I've been dating a girl for 2 months, she's pretty hot, and I'm pretty sure her sexual notch is high, she said she dated hot guys in the past, and I got pretty insecure and kicked her out of my house cause I said that disgusting for her to tell me.

I've slept with 17 women, but I know women these days have on average about 50, does it come through your mind when you're dating? I'm not looking for anything serious but there is lingering doubt that I won't measured up, even though I know my way in bed.

I told her that I didn't wanna date her again because she didn't respect when I told her in the beginning I didn't care about her sexual past but she said it anyways, keep in mind I didn't want anything serious, so I shouldn't have cared about that, but I did cause I was falling for her.

I want to know your honest opinion if that means I get the hammer.

 

[PedritoHID]

She even did a threesome one time, because I asked, I forgot to add

 

[bobby ricky]

I don’t have rear view mirrors. I don’t care about the past or have any interest in it. I’ve slept with 5 girls only but if I slept with 100 it wouldn’t change who I am or my self worth. When It comes to women I don’t care what they have done in the past. Don’t know if I answered anything for u.

 

[Gainz.]

Bro... you can't be bothered by their past. Every one has one. The fact that shes had 3somes would of been a reason to keep her around!

You need to change your mentality. Instead of thinking "she only dates hot guys, or shes been with 20 dudes" you need to think "I hope shes been with 20 dudes, because when I'm done with her shes gonna learn I'm the fucking man and those others didn't know what they were doing"
I've been with a lot of girls... I could say my number but most of the people reading wouldn't believe it anyway... plus I'm not proud of it anymore. But what I can say is a solid 70-80% of the women ive been with, never had a legit O before! The sad fact is most guys are extremely selfish in bed and treat it more like a race than anything else. Who ever comes first wins... so sad. Another fact, all girls squirt... every single one of them... so keep that in mind. Because the majority of them never have, and don't think they can. So that should be your goal. But only if you want them driving by your house at all hours of the night

But @bobby ricky is right, their past really shouldn't matter. If it does, make it clear from the start that you don't want to hear about it.
But if you're not looking for marriage, it really shouldn't matter brother. I get it tho, I wouldn't want to be with a girl who had a number like mine... that's some Abbela Danger level shit (for her I'd definitely make a exception) but that's also why I'm ashamed of it. I can't help but how that makes my girl feel. Hell I slept with 7 of my ex gfs friends before I even met her. For the first 3 months we dated she kept introducing me to her friends... yup... we already met .
I know you're dead set on getting those numbers up, just be safe brother... it's scary out there.
But the next time you find a girl that's into 3 ways... you might want to hold on to it. Or give me her number...

 

[PedritoHID]

Thank you bros, you guys are definitely right, its hard to internalize you're a catch when everything I've done was studying and working to get a good quality life.

I'm more than 10 years behind with respect with relationships and girls.

 

[PedritoHID]

I don’t have rear view mirrors. I don’t care about the past or have any interest in it. I’ve slept with 5 girls only but if I slept with 100 it wouldn’t change who I am or my self worth. When It comes to women I don’t care what they have done in the past. Don’t know if I answered anything for u.

I appreciate this comment pops, you know they how they say a "real alpha male" has a lot women under his belt, and since nobody teaches you relationship skills, and in this feminine society one's mind gets fvcked up

 

[Gainz.]

Not to mention if she said she only dates hot guys... that should be a compliment. But it sounds like you need to stop falling for these girls! Being a "player" isn't for everyone, separation of sex and feelings isn't always possible for some. Sounds like you need to figure out what you truly want. If you want to add numbers... you're really gonna have to not give a shit what their past... or future is. If you want a relationship... well... make sure you are in a good spot mentally first. You can't love someone else if you're not happy with yourself.

 

[Gainz.]

I appreciate this comment pops, you know they how they say a "real alpha male" has a lot women under his belt, and since nobody teaches you relationship skills, and in this feminine society one's mind gets fvcked up

See I don't really think that's 100% true. My grandfather is old school Italian. War hero, golden gloves in the navy, raised 5 boys, countless grandchildren and great grandchildren... has crashed motorcycles and been in bar brawls. He's only ever been with my grandmother. Celebrated 57 years of marriage before she died. He was as alpha as it got.... hell he's in his 80s and I'm fairly certain he'd still whoop my ass!
Alpha is attitude...

 

[HGH.to]

Not to mention if she said she only dates hot guys... that should be a compliment

that's the first thing that crossed my mind.
and i agree with the fact that it doesn't really matter the past as long as you're looking into the future. if she's nice, why would her past change anything?
After all, if you're really not searching for anything serious then it surely doesn't matter. But even if you do, why would it?

 

[PedritoHID]

if you're really not searching for anything serious then it surely doesn't matter. But even if you do, why would it?

Insecurities brother

 

[Gainz.]

Insecurities brother

You need to wear those insecurities like armor! Look at hip hop... eminem, tom McDonald and NF. 3 of the biggest and best names in the game. Every single one of them points out their own flaws and then turns them into strengths. Like me, I have big ears and thick eyebrows... yet I'm bald and my facial hair is always lighter than my eyebrows. I don't try to hide it, I let them be distinguished features. I use to be very insecure about my weight and my body. But that's not a issue anymore. But I've always been confident... never been shy... having a massive... "ego" (especially for a white boy ) has always been a huge reason for that. Kinda like a secret weapon... ace in the hole.
So my advice is identifying what you think are your flaws, then turning them into a positive. Then focus on what you think is your best feature when you start to feel insecure in conversation with girls. Never worry about if some other guy was better. Focus on how you can treat her better or just be better. Because if they really cared for the other guys... they wouldn't be talking to you. Be proud they chose to talk to you, then show them why you're better than everyone else!

 

[Justintime1177]

Hello brows,

I am here one again asking for your support.

Do you have sexual insecurities with your notch count? I've been dating a girl for 2 months, she's pretty hot, and I'm pretty sure her sexual notch is high, she said she dated hot guys in the past, and I got pretty insecure and kicked her out of my house cause I said that disgusting for her to tell me.

I've slept with 17 women, but I know women these days have on average about 50, does it come through your mind when you're dating? I'm not looking for anything serious but there is lingering doubt that I won't measured up, even though I know my way in bed.

I told her that I didn't wanna date her again because she didn't respect when I told her in the beginning I didn't care about her sexual past but she said it anyways, keep in mind I didn't want anything serious, so I shouldn't have cared about that, but I did cause I was falling for her.

I want to know your honest opinion if that means I get the hammer.

I think your stressing about shit that's outta your control, it's sounds like you need to deal with your insecurities before dating just for fun. Just my opinion. Look I'm married and not in that world buts it's like the age-old question who's dick was bigger. Sounds like you gotta get over it and not worry about that shit.

 

[bobby ricky]

I’ll bet a bottle of testosterone that my dick is bigger.

 

[Gainz.]

I’ll bet a bottle of testosterone that my dick is bigger.

Hahaha, as someone whose extremely blessed... it's not all its cracked up to be. Can't go as hard as you want... most girls straight up refuse to do stuff. And theres a good chance you're going to be bruised from smashing cervix.
I'm slowly wearing my girl down, trying to start a only fans... I'm tired of working... and always figured I'd end up doing porn at some point.

 

[Justintime1177]

I’ll bet a bottle of testosterone that my dick is bigger.

Brilliant

 

[Gainz.]

A few years ago I definitely would of taken that bet! But I've learned there's always someone bigger, stronger, faster. (I'm just happy I'm double the national average) but that doesn't mean shit anymore... fucking king Kong mother fuckers out there

 

[Justintime1177]

A few years ago I definitely would of taken that bet! But I've learned there's always someone bigger, stronger, faster. (I'm just happy I'm double the national average) but that doesn't mean shit anymore... fucking king Kong mother fuckers out there

Ya Google the dude from Mexico lol

 

[bobby ricky]

A few years ago I definitely would of taken that bet! But I've learned there's always someone bigger, stronger, faster. (I'm just happy I'm double the national average) but that doesn't mean shit anymore... fucking king Kong mother fuckers out there

I was just joking my brother. Just trying to get a laugh. You hear so many bad things it’s good to hear something different.

 

[Justintime1177]

I was just joking my brother. Just trying to get a laugh. You hear so many bad things it’s good to hear something different.

As was I

 

[Patricksimms]

She even did a threesome one time, because I asked, I forgot to add

Can you give her my number... Loljk