The pump
Yeah man, I had to basically do my workout backwards. Most people go heavy then rep out, or do accessories.
But for the life of me I couldn't get my pecs or lats to grow. I couldn't feel them engaging or contracting.
The only way to feel them was after they were pumped up.
Luckily I workout at home, because doing 4 sets of 15 with the smallest bands they make.... well it isn't a good look, and doesn't make you feel super manly.
But I swear it worked for me, it really helped my lats!! I finally have some!
A while ago I asked my girl what she thought was the best part about a guy... of course she said "that cobra back" (that bitch) of course she couldn't of listed anything I have... shredded 6pack, that deep v in your abdomen, well developed triceps, big calves, veiny forearms... no! She had to say the one thing that was always impossible for me to develop!
That's what led to my journey of trying to develop my lats and that mind muscle connection. Once I finally figured them out, I went to my chest. Now it's my damn little girls traps that are lagging behind.
(I think they are finally growing... I think)
But I can't stress enough how important that mind muscle connection is!
I worked out for a solid year, doing all the same things I do now and my chest and lats didn't really improve. Not until (she broke me

) I started worrying about how I was moving the weight, and not how much weight I was moving!
The heavier you go, the more muscle groups your body is going to recruit to do the exercise!
If you're benching 250lb your body is naturally gonna try to use your shoulders, lats, triceps and chest to move the weight.
But if you bench 100lbs you can really slow down, focus and force your body to only use the muscles you want to use... aka your chest!