I got hard while sparing with a lady 20 years younger than me while her husband was watchingThis is why we're all different and want different things.
To me, yes abs matter. But I'm a extremely vain Ginny. How I look without a shirt on is the only thing I care about. I don't care about how much I can bench, or squat.
I live near a pretty popular water attraction. So in the nice months lots of people come to my little town, and I'm always out walking my pitbulls... without a shirt on. The joy I get from watching another guys gf just staring at me... then the dirty look he gives me once he catches her... almost enough to make my dick hard! I don't know why I get so much pleasure from that, especially because 98% of the time I wouldn't fuck their gf on a dare.
Its just how I'm wired, it's what makes me happy.
But I'm definitely not big enough...not yet.
6ft 180lb just isn't gonna cut it for me.
But if being bigger makes you more happy than having abs.. then that's what you do brother!
I mean...how often are you shirtless in public?if the answer is almost never... then abs really don't matter.
But my next bit of advice is.. 225lb you have abs, and 250lb you don't... but you haven't done tren yet!
2 good blasts on tren and you'll be at 250lb with abs for sure!
The way she punches me then holds me while we both fall on the floor in a pile of sweat.
I believe that says it all 
