Had something similar happen from chasing a max bench. Between chasing numbers and a very physical job... I got hurt. That's what put me out for almost 8 years.
Now... Moderate weight and high reps! Like 4 sets of 30-40 (super high volume)
Roughly 2 years of training, 50lbs of muscle and only 1 nasty tear in that time. It's kept me mostly injury free. I don't think I'll ever go for numbers again. It's just not worth the risk anymore. When I'm walking around with my shirt off... No one ever comes up and asks what my max is. I just get the dirty look of jealousy... Too me that's far more rewarding than a 350lb bench. I much rather look strong... Than be strong.
I just don't want to get hurt again. I'm terrified the next big injury will put me out of this lifestyle forever.
So if that means 15lb lateral raises... So fucking be it! Especially when people think I can do them with 45lbs


