Ok... so before I got hurt (I was 26 when I got hurt, so a several months before that, 6ft 176lbs) I was on a mission to bench 300lbs. For a long time I was stuck around 260lb. No matter what I did I couldn't get past it. A buddy finally pointed out I was overtraining, once I stopped and gave my body time to recover I jumped to 275lb. Then got stuck for weeks. I recruited the help of my buddy Justin, the same kid that told me to recover. I found that I wasn't warming up properly, I was actually doing basically a full workout before I tried to max out. That got me to 285lb. But as always I was stuck again, really thought I hit my genetic potential. But being young and driven I kept training. A old timer at the gym told me to stop doing flat bench, focus on decline and incline and really focus on back, rows, bent over rows, and triceps! Need those triceps to lock that shit out! So I didn't touch a flat bench for a month... maybe more, I did lat pulldowns and close grip declines until I dreamt about them at night. Actually put a 1/2" on my arms in that time. Got 225lb close grip decline for 3. (Hands about 6 or 7 inches apart) gave myself 4 full days of rest and I hit that 300lb bench. The first went up so easily I got in my own head, I got so excited I went for a second and forgot to breathe and brace. Needless to say I didn't get 2. But I sure did celebrate after! Like 2 or 3 days later I wanted to try again, but didn't take it seriously... because I already did it and it should be easy
. It wasn't, couldn't lock it out. Decided to give myself a break and focus on other body parts, was really trying to curl my body weight at that time and got stuck around 160lb. Later that week I got hurt at work and didn't touch a weight until I was 32.
Hopefully some of that was helpful... or at least entertaining!
But remember more than just your chest moves weight on the bench. Make sure you build up the muscles around it, and give yourself time to recover!