seems we're very alike!
it pisses me off when there's a random lady trying to enter and you don't have enough man in you to open the door for her, not to mention when you're around with your wife/gf/sister or mom. oh... the lack of respect mothers these days face is way out of what I can accept...
Bro... The total lack of respect I see for women today makes me sick. Granted... Not all women exactly deserve that respect... But as a majority.
Not that long ago I was driving down the highway... It leads from a interstate to a small town. Anyway... On the side of the highway there's this 20 something year old kid beating up his gf. Not arguing... Actually hitting!!
This is like 3pm on a Saturday afternoon. Extremely busy road... Thousands of people are driving by.
Bro... I didn't even realize I was doing it... I didn't stop and think... I just reacted.
I swerved into the fast lane where they were and reversed back to his car.
Before my brain could even register what was going on I had this kid by the throat and was slamming him off his car. Just repeatedly picking him up and slamming him into the hood of his car by his throat. He was... Well I'm gonna leave race out of it... But he wasn't black and he wasn't white. He was like 5'7 maybe 130 dressed like... A broke rapper. I wanted to start hitting him... But by now my brain is starting to work again... The rage is leaving my body and common sense is starting to take it's place. By this point I can see the fear in his eyes and realize... I'm about 45 seconds into not letting this kid breath and idk 8 as hard as I possibly can slams into this altercation. So I finally just pin him (by his throat) and start talking to the girl. She's ok, but beat up. I asked her if she wanted to call the cops. She said no she just wants her phone and to go home. I asked where her phone was and she said it was in his pocket. So I continued to hold him down while she got it. At this point he starts yelling and screaming... Trying to plead his case. I told her that if she wanted a ride home I would bring her, and to go wait in my car.
I turned back to him and said when she gets in the car I'm going to let you up, but if you act stupid... This time I'm going to hit you and I'm not gonna stop. He just nodded... I waited until she was safe in my car and let him up. He took a few seconds... Kinda sized me up and then started begging for her to come back with him. Screaming he was sorry and how she could just leave with some random dude. By this time...I'm calm Gainz... I'm no longer looking for blood. I told him... She's not leaving with me, I'm making sure she's safe. I don't know what's going on in your relationship but hitting a woman is never the answer. I also told him that I would be giving her my number and if I ever find out that he hit her again I'm gonna find him.
I was expecting him to blind side me as I turned and went back to my car.
I got in and this girl (a very pretty Puerto Rican girl) is just crying her eyes out. I asked if she wanted to go to the ER but she refused (looking back I probably should of brought her anyway, just so there was a record of the situation... But physically she was... "Ok"... A little bruised a little bloody but ok)
I did infact give her my number and told her if he did it again or she thought he was going to do it again to call me. As it turned out she lived like 4 minutes down the road.
I texted her a few weeks after the incident and she said she broke up with him that night and never seen him again.
But the reason why I share this story... It's not to seem like some hero or cool badass...
But... Hundreds if not thousands of people drove by witnessing the same thing I did... Not 1 other person stopped to help or even called the cops. Start to finish from when I seen it till I pulled away I was on the side of that road for 5-7 minutes.
There's 2 police stations within 3 miles (right on the border of 2 small towns) and a heavily patrolled area by the cops.
I can't believe the cops didn't roll up... If you knew the town I lived in... You'd understand how quickly the cops come.
I just can't believe I was the only 1 who stopped.
Maybe what I did was dumb or dangerous... I don't know if he had a gun. But I was raised to protect women... No matter what.
What the fuck happened to that mentality?
The more I think of that day the more angry I get.
The fact that he had the balls to hit her in such a public place, her for being this scumbags punching bag... The fact that no one else helped... just a fucking sad day for humanity.